Hey Harmony: Is He Shady?

Hey Harmony,

I have a boyfriend, and I like him a lot. We've only been together for two months, but on my birthday he surprised me with flowers, and on Valentine's Day he went all out with a gigantic box of chocolates and tickets to see my favorite band.

So what's the problem? 

Last week we were hanging out, watching a movie at my house. His phone was on the couch in between and I saw it light up with a text that said "Missing You" with a kissy face emoji! I couldn't see who the text was from, but now I gotta know: is he being shady? How can I find out what's going on?

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Harmony:

Hey girl hey! From what I can tell, you have a few options. And who doesn't love options? 

Option 1: Assume the worst and overreact. This would entail confronting him outright with an accusation and breaking his stuff (hint: don't choose this option)

Option 2: Assume the best/ keep calm and carry on. This would entail deciding the text was harmless, maybe from his sister or mom or...grandma? (hint: seems unlikely, but you never know).

Option 3: Calmly tell him what you saw and listen closely to what he has to say. How he reacts will say a lot about him! If you like his explanation and feel that he's telling the truth, keep dating him and see what happens! But if the conversation leaves you feeling uneasy and suspicious then DUMP THIS LOSER. You are WAY too good to be with someone you can't trust. 

Hugs, 

Harmony